My Stupid Sister's Advice re. Our Mother.

Chelseao: to live as if something actually depended on one's actions... says:

We both agreed those conversations are kind of normal when you reach adulthood. I dunno, its tough to make that transition, but seeing mom not as a mom anymore, but a person (or friend) with her own problems is the reality of growing up.

Chelseao: to live as if something actually depended on one's actions... says:

I don't think its right to stop talking to her. family's important...i think...

balling diddums says:

No. fuck you. Its not the reality of growing up. Mom fucking abused me, and I'm not going to treat her like my fucking friend when she still treats me like a five year old fucking child and someone to fucking gripe at when no one else will listen to her bullshit.

Balling diddums says: 

You want to be the bigger person that deals with mom, good for you. Let me know how that works out for you when you go back home and live with her for a week.

Chelseao: to live as if something actually depended on one's actions... says:

there's a better way to argue with someone than swearing your face off.

Chelseao: to live as if something actually depended on one's actions... says:

You can't blame other people for YOUR life. take some fucking responsibility and get over it.

Chelseao: to live as if something actually depended on one's actions... says:

that really hurt to type, but you need to hear it.

Chelseao: to live as if something actually depended on one's actions... says:

yah she was a horrible mother, but that doesn't mean your unhappiness is her fault.

Chelseao: to live as if something actually depended on one's actions... says:

It's how we deal with things that make us who we are.

balling diddums says:

I'm not swearing my face off. This is who I am. I swear. A LOT. And if you perceive it as negative, I really don't give a shit.

balling diddums says:

Wow Chelsea. You have no fucking idea what I fucking lived, or what my life was like and you have a lot of fucking nerve to tell me I can't be mad at our mother for things that I didn't feel supported about. Its pretty easy to get over all the shit that you had to deal with when you just run away from it, isn't it?

balling diddums says:

I don't want to talk to you anymore. Not tonight anyway.